Moving On
Everyone kept saying that if your relationship ends. You need to "Move On" from it. You need to get back on your own feet and move from the heartache that you got from someone you used to love. Yes, they are right we should start to take a step forward. But we also know that moving on isn't as easy as it can be said. Moving on is like accepting the fact that both of you won't be together anymore, that the other half you loved so much would end up being a stranger in the future.
Each night before you sleep and each day after you wake up you would realize that you didn't just lost the person you love. You also lost the future both of you planned together. Everything. Even though you don't want to remember that person your mind would unconsciously do a flashback about everything.
There would be a time where you just want to lock yourself in the room and just start crying, trying to figure where and when did the relationship went wrong. Questions that would begin to pop inside of your head. Questions that you can't answer.
Sometimes we want to hangout with our close friends and families to forget the pain, during the day you would feel okay, but as soon as the night would fall and you are all alone by yourself in the bed the reality would hit you again. Like a video playing in your head continually replaying all those happy days, those petty arguments, those sweet moments.
It would hurt so much that your chest would tighten and tears would fall nonstop from the pain. Yes, How can you move on, if the person you dream of spending your whole life would just leave you suddenly.
Wishing that moving out of love is as easy as falling on the ground and standing up again. Moving on is a unbearable process of forgetting.
So if ever you are having a heartache right now from your break up. I want you to cry as much as you can. Until, you feel like there's no tears would fall. I want you to know that it's not wrong to cry, to be sad. You were hurt so its natural. You don't need to rush to forget the memories, to forget that person. its okay to feel empty. You are not alone. There are people who would wait for you to stand up again, to see your smiling. So take your time and don't rush to move on.
Each night before you sleep and each day after you wake up you would realize that you didn't just lost the person you love. You also lost the future both of you planned together. Everything. Even though you don't want to remember that person your mind would unconsciously do a flashback about everything.
There would be a time where you just want to lock yourself in the room and just start crying, trying to figure where and when did the relationship went wrong. Questions that would begin to pop inside of your head. Questions that you can't answer.
Sometimes we want to hangout with our close friends and families to forget the pain, during the day you would feel okay, but as soon as the night would fall and you are all alone by yourself in the bed the reality would hit you again. Like a video playing in your head continually replaying all those happy days, those petty arguments, those sweet moments.
It would hurt so much that your chest would tighten and tears would fall nonstop from the pain. Yes, How can you move on, if the person you dream of spending your whole life would just leave you suddenly.
Wishing that moving out of love is as easy as falling on the ground and standing up again. Moving on is a unbearable process of forgetting.
So if ever you are having a heartache right now from your break up. I want you to cry as much as you can. Until, you feel like there's no tears would fall. I want you to know that it's not wrong to cry, to be sad. You were hurt so its natural. You don't need to rush to forget the memories, to forget that person. its okay to feel empty. You are not alone. There are people who would wait for you to stand up again, to see your smiling. So take your time and don't rush to move on.
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